4/29/2010

Thursday 13: Things I want for You....


Just some random thoughts today, as I sit and watch my little boy play. He is almost 2 years old but sometimes when I see the look of wonder and determination on his little face, I get a glimpse of the young man he will some day become. My eyes mist over, my heart swells and I think of all the things I want him to experience, all the things I want for him in life.



So for Thursday Thirteen---
I came up with
13 Things I Want For You, My Son

  1. To know the unconditional bond of true friendship.
  2. To experience the angst and joy of first love and the pain of first heartbreak.
  3. To feel really small when you appreciate the enormity of the ocean, the Grand Canyon and our world. Marvel at God's creations and praise Him.
  4. To learn the sting of humility when you fail or make a mistake - but never give up, always give it your best shot.
  5. To be honest, be compassionate and giving, even when no one notices.
  6. To be kind, polite and loving. Be gentle and respectful with others, especially women, your elders and animals.
  7. To not be afraid to take risks, to try new things, to travel to unfamiliar places.
  8. To stand up for what you believe in. Even if sometimes it means you stand alone.
  9. To appreciate that you are different. You are God's unique, amazing, beautiful work of art. Embrace your individuality. Appreciate and tolerate this in others, too.
  10. To set goals and work hard for them. But take time to rest and play and to savor the little things in life and precious time with loved ones.
  11. To find your soulmate and share all of life's adventures with them.
  12. To learn about your history, your culture and to visit your country of birth*. To know that you were and are so wanted and so loved and we are a forever family.
  13. To know the joy, pain, pride, fears and ultimate love of being a parent. To hold an infant in your arms and know instantly that you would give your life to protect this tiny creature.

*Our orecious son was adopted at 10 months old from S. Korea.

9 comments:

GirlX said...

I am not a parent, but I can really appreciate this list. It's written beautifully.

Thanks for stopping by my T13 :) and I heart that song (Lips Like Sugar) too... I sing it in the car!

Kim said...

Awwww! This brought tears to my eyes. It is so beautiful. I definitely have the same hopes for my son and how great that you were fortunate enough to find him!

Rachel said...

That was awesome! What beautiful words. I know when he is older he is going to treasure them!!

Thanks for stopping by my blog!

Have a great day!

Rachel
http://www.averyfan.blogspot.com/

Apple said...

Those are some beautiful things to want for your son...

By the way...we are naming him Jesse.

Mom of Many said...

Awww...this is so beautiful. I love them all.

Divaa Divine said...

:) wonderful!!!

You can tick me off

Erin said...

this is incredible. I just tweeted it. so beautiful and thoughtful....he will love reading it himself one day!!!

Heide said...

Just lovely. xo

Laurie (GastricGirl.com) said...

This is a beautiful list! Thanks for sharing!!

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